The situation in the parish, where the parish priest does not listen to parishioners, makes unilateral decisions, and asks parishioners to perform tasks they do not like, can indeed be considered a form of institutional bullying due to the power imbalance.

Institutional bullying occurs when individuals in positions of authority misuse their power to control or mistreat those in lower positions. Here are some key aspects to consider:

1. Power Imbalance:

The parish priest holds a significant position of authority within the church community. This power imbalance can lead to situations where the priest’s decisions and actions are not challenged, even if they are unfavorable or harmful to parishioners.

• Lack of Voice and Participation:

When parishioners feel that their concerns and opinions are ignored or dismissed, it creates an environment where their voices are not heard. This can lead to feelings of frustration, helplessness, and marginalization.

• Unilateral Decisions:

 If the priest makes decisions without consulting or considering the input of the parishioners, it can contribute to a sense of exclusion and disempowerment among the community members.

• Unpleasant Tasks:

Asking parishioners to do things they do not like, especially repeatedly, can be seen as a form of coercion or undue pressure. This can be particularly problematic if there is no room for discussion or refusal.

• Favoritism:

Having the same people consistently perform certain roles, such as readings in the church, can create a perception of favoritism and exclusion, which can further contribute to a divisive and uncomfortable environment.

In addressing such issues, it is important for the parish community to have mechanisms for feedback and dialogue. Parishioners should feel empowered to express their concerns and seek resolution through appropriate channels, such as parish councils or diocesan authorities. Open communication, mutual respect, and inclusive decision-making processes are key to fostering a healthy and supportive church environment.

The following open letter may throw some light into how some priests allegedly practice institutional bullying and how do people react.